
Welcome:
We are gathered here today to celebrate one of life's greatest moments, to give recognition to the worth and beauty of love, and to add our best wishes to the words which shall unite_______________________ and ____________________________ in marriage.
Anyone Contest?:
Should there be anyone who has cause why this couple should not be united in marriage, they must speak now or forever hold their peace.
Giving the Bride Away:
(If the bride is escorted forward)
Who is it that brings this woman to this man?
(The father, children, relative etc. may give the bride away. He /they answer "I do", This
person then steps back and the groom takes the bride's hand.)
Charge:
____________________ and _______________________ , I would ask that you both remember to
treat yourself and each other with respect, and remind yourself often of what brought you
together today. Give the highest priority to the tenderness, gentleness and kindness that
your marriage deserves. When frustration and difficulty assail your marriage - as they do
to every relationship at one time or another - focus on what still seems right between you,
not only the part that seems wrong. This way, when clouds of trouble hide the sun in your
lives and you lose sight of it for a moment, you can remember that the sun is still there.
And if each of you will take responsibility for the quality of your life together, it will
be marked by abundance and delight.
VOWS
(Vows used unless other vows are wished.
You may change the vows as you wish or write your own.)
(Groom ) ________________, do you take _______________ to he your Wife?
Do you promise to love, honor, cherish and protect her, forsaking all others and holding
only unto her forevermore?
("I do")
(Bride ________________, do you take __________________ to be your Husband? Do you
promise to love, honor, cherish and protect him, forsaking all others and holding only unto
him forevermore? "(I do")
REPEATED VOWS
(If rings are exchanged each does so before repeating the following vows - unless you wish other vows or do not wish to repeat vows. It is not required that a couple exchange rings.)
(Groom) I _____________, take thee, ________________ to be my Wife- To have and to hold, in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer, in joy and sorrow and I promise my love to you.
If Rings are exchanged - ("With this ring, I take you as my wife, for as long as we both shall live")
(Bride ) I _________________, take thee ______________, to be my Husband. To have and to hold, in sickness and in health , for richer or for poorer, in joy and sorrow, and I promise My love to you.
If Rings are exchanged - ("With this ring, I take you as my husband, for as long as we both
shall live.")
CHILDREN
(If there are children of either couple, sometime
s couples will give a ring or small gift such as a necklace or ring to the child and say a short
statement that they also are now part of the new family. I believe it very important to mention
children's names in the ceremony, If you have minor children coming into the marriage, please
provide their names so I will mention them as is appropriate.)
BLESSING
____________________________ and ___________________________ as the two of you come into this
marriage uniting you as husband and wife, and as you this day affirm your faith and love for one
another, I would ask that you always remember to cherish each other as special and unique
individuals, that you respect the thoughts, ideas and suggestions of one another. Be able to
forgive, do not hold grudges, and live each day that you may share it together - as from this
day forward you shall be each other's home, comfort and refuge, your marriage strengthened by
your love and respect for each other.
Just as two threads woven in opposite directions will form a most beautiful tapestry, so too can
your two lives merged together make a beautiful marriage. To make your relationship work will
take love. This is the core of your marriage and why you are here today. It will take trust , to
know in your hearts that you truly want the best for each other. It will take dedication, to
stay open to one another - and to learn and grow together. It will take faith, to go forward
together without knowing exactly what the future brings. And it will take commitment, to hold
true to the journey you both pledge today to share together.
UNITY CANDLE CEREMONY (this is not required)
____________________ and _____________________, the two separate candles symbolize your separate
lives, separate families and separate sets of friends. I ask that each of you take on of the
lit candles and that together you light the center candle.
The individual candles represent your lives before today. Lighting the center candle represents
that your two lives are now joined to one light, and represents the joining together of your two
families and sets of friends to one.
DECLARATION:
________________________ and _________________________, in so much as the two of you have agreed
to live together in Matrimony, have promised your love for each other by these vows, the joining
of your hands and the giving of these rings, I now declare you to be Husband and Wife.
KISS THE BRIDE:
Congratulations, you may kiss your bride.
INTRODUCTION:
It is my privilege to present to you Mr. & Mrs. _______________________________
Gathered from http://www.dfwx.com/master.html..though I've
seen this information in other places as well.